A WOMAN shared that she’s fed up with people assuming she has trauma or is after money because she is married to a man 30 years old.
The mum-of-one, 24, who posts on TikTok under the handle @cooladybugmom, is married to a 54-year-old man and explained that she’s very happy.
The 24-year-old TikToker shares insights into life with her 54-year-old husbandCredit: cooladybugmom / Tiktok
She explained that she loves the 30-year age gap between themCredit: cooladybugmom / Tiktok
She regularly speaks out on TikTok about her relationship and the negative assumptions people often make.
In one such video she answered three questions as part of the: “Age gap couples challenge.”
The first was: “Are you a sugar baby?”
To which she replied: “Ughhh. Not anymore.”
The second was: “Are you a mail order bride?”
To which she said: “Hell no.”
And the final was: “Years apart?”
To which she said: “30 years and loving it.”
The woman said she is often asked if she is a sugar baby or if she was a mail order brideCredit: cooladybugmom / Tiktok
The couple have regularly faced criticism for the age gapCredit: cooladybugmom / Tiktok
The influencer also addressed the assumption that she was in her relationship due to some sort of past trauma.
Taking to TikTok, she said: “A lot of people like to assume that because we’re in these age gap relationships we come from a history of trauma, abuse or neglect.
“It sounds like projections to me.
“But seriously there’s not enough light shed on the positive relationships.
“I was raised with a loving mum, two great dads and I got to attend some really nice schools.
“And with those awesome parents came wisdom on how to choose a partner.
“You want somebody that you can build with, somebody that you can have children with, somebody that you can die with.
“All of which is madly expensive. Madly.
“Some couples are the sugar baby type, and some aren’t and that should be ok.
“That being said, all the age gap girls that I know are extremely goal oriented, intelligent and successful.
“Why? Because we base our partners on compatibility and we talk about everything.”